By the time kids hit their tweens, they’re craving more independence — and that includes how they play.
One of the simplest ways to keep them engaged in sports? Let them have a voice. Invite them into the decision-making:
Do they want to try a new position?
Take a break from competition?
Focus on fun over wins?
When kids feel ownership over their experience, they’re more likely to stay in the game — and enjoy it.
The shift is subtle but powerful: from “doing what they’re told” to “pursuing what they love.” That’s when growth really sticks.